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jf12 says:
June 8, 2014 at 9:43 am
#373 ‘splainin why it’s alll about the assortating. You said you felt “deeply insulting and disrespectful” because women thought you should be interested in this woman. Maybe I am missing it, like you say, but it seems to me that you would feel that way ONLY because you felt she was too far beneath your level. If she had been a 9 or 10 or your type, would you have felt insulted by women thinking you’d enjoy her?
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Ciaran says:
June 8, 2014 at 10:07 am
@Obsidian #376,
I came across a very relevant concept the other day: moral narcissism:
Moral Narcissism is an evocative term for the almost schizophrenic divide between intentions and results now common in our culture. It doesn’t matter how anything turns out as long as your intentions are good. And, just as importantly, the only determinant of those intentions, the only one who defines them, is you.
In other words, if you propose or do something, it only matters that you feel good or righteous about what you did or are proposing, that it makes you feel better personally. The results are irrelevant, as are how the actual activity affects others.
Moral narcissism is fairly universal in our culture, but is strongest among progressives, post-modernists, feminists, and women in general. It is closely tied to the “female imperative” and “female solipsism”.